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It’s My Daughter’s 3rd Birthday Today!

My daughter is really very excited for this day to come. Months before, she kept on telling me that she will wear a pretty blue gown, with blue tiara, blue gloves, and glass slippers for this very special occassion – just like Cinderella. My husband bought two blue dresses – not a gown – but was not able to buy a blue gloves and blue tiara. Instead, I bought her a blue headband and a white gloves which I put blue sequines on it. There will be a birthday party this afternoon but it will not be as grand as last year. We have just invited her cousins and few neighbors. I hope she will have a happy birthday!

We love you Baby Girl and may you have many more birthdays to come! Kisses and hugs from mommy and daddy!

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TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1950′s, 60′ s, 70′s and early 80′s !!

I received this e-mail from a friend:

First, some of us   s urvived being born to mothers who did not have an OB-Gyne and drank San Miguel Beer while they carried us.

While pregnant, they took cold or cough medicine,  a te isaw, and didn’t worry about diabetes.


 

Then after all that trauma, our baby cribs were made of hard wood covered with lead-based paints, pati na yung walker natin, matigas na kahoy din at wala pang gulong.


 

We had no soft cushy cribs that play music, no disposable diapers (lampin lang), and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, no kneepads , sometimes wala pang preno yung bisikleta.


 

As children, we would ride in hot un-airconditioned buses with wooden seats (yung JD bus na pula), or cars with no airconditioning & no seat belts   (ngayon lahat may aircon na)


 

Riding on the back of a carabao  on a breezy summer day was considered a treat. (ngayon hindi na nakakakita ng kalabaw ang mga bata)


 

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle purchased from 711 ( minsan straight from the faucet or poso)


 

We shared one soft drink bottle with four of our friends, and NO ONE actually died from this. Or contacted hepatitis.


 

We ate rice with star margarine, ate raw eggs straight from the shell,  and drank softdrinks with real sugar in it (hindi coke zero), but we weren’t sick or overweight kasi nga……


 

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!


 

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, and get back when the streetlights came on. Sarap mag patintero, tumbang preso , habulan at taguan.


 

No one was able to reach us all day ( di uso ang cellphone at walang beepers ) . And yes, we were O.K.


 

We would spend hours building our wooden trolleys (yung bearing ang gulong) or plywood slides out of scraps and then ride down the street , only to find out we forgot the brakes!  After hitting the sidewalk or falling into a canal (sewerage channel) a few times, we learned to solve the problem ourselves with our bare & dirty hands .


 

We did not have Playstations,PSP’s Nintendo’s, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 100 channels on cable, no DVD movies, no surround stereo, no IPOD’s,  no cell phones, no computers, no Internet, no chat rooms, no Friendster, no YouTube, no multiply………… WE HAD REAL FRIENDS and we went outside to actually talk and play with them!



We fell out of trees, got cut, broken bones and teeth and there were no stupid lawsuits from these accidents
. The only rubbing we get is from our friends with the words..masakit ba ? pero pag galit yung kalaro mo,,,,ang sasabihin sa iyo..beh buti nga !



We played marbles (jolens) in the dirt , washed our hands just a little and ate dirty ice cream & fish balls. we were not afraid of getting germs in our stomachs.



We had to live with homemade guns ” gawa sa kahoy, tinali ng rubberband , sumpit , tirador at kung ano ano pa na puedeng makasakitan. .pero masaya pa rin ang lahat.

We made up games with sticks ( syatong ), and cans (tumbang preso )and although we were told they were dangerous, wala naman tayong binulag o napatay.paminsan minsan may nabubukulan lang.

We walked, rode bikes, or took tricycles to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them to jump out the window!



Mini basketball teams
had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t pass had to learn to deal with the disappointment. Wala yang mga childhood depression at damaged self esteem ek-ek na yan. Ang pikon, talo.  



Ang magulang ay nandoon lang para tignan kung ayos lang ang mga bata, hindi para makialam at makipag-away sa ibang parents.


That generation
of ours has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers, creative thinkers and successful professionals ever! They are the CEO’s, Engineers, Doctors and Military Generals of today.  


The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.


We had failure, success, and responsibility. We learned from our mistakes the hard way.


You might want to share this with others who’ve had the luck to grow up as real kids. We were lucky indeed.  
And if you like, forward it to your kids too, so they will know how brave their parents were..


It kind of makes you wanna go out and climb a tree, doesn’t it?!

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Going Blue This Christmas

Is blue still “in” this Christmas? I saw lots of blue Christmas decors in department stores. I wouldn’t be going for blue this Christmas, otherwise I will be having a blue Christmas then too – heaven forbids.

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The Interpretation Of My Daughter’s Drawing

kendra's kingdomOnce upon a time in a far away land of Cancabato there lived King Daddy and Queen Mommy who have a beautiful daughter named Princess Cinderella Kendra.

 

It’s a beautiful sunny day. The magnificent blue sky is enveloped with cotton-white clouds and is brightened by the radiance of the splendid colors of the rainbow perfect for today’s occasion. Princess Cinderella Kendra is celebrating her 3rd birthday. She is having a grand birthday celebration in the Royal Garden outside the castle where the Royal Family lives. She is dancing with her Prince Daddy while her Queen Mommy is amazed to see their fantastic royal dance. Under the shade of a huge tree is her fairy god Ate (in orange) who is holding a violet magic wand that was used to “Bibbiddi      . . . . . bobbiddi . . . . boo” to turn her into a princess. At twelve midnight, she will say adieu to everyone leaving behind her golden slipper. Her prince daddy will return that golden slipper to her and they will dance all day. The end.

 

That’s the interpretation of her drawing.

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My Christmas Balls

Chrismas Balls
I made some of the balls hanging in my Christmas Tree. It was fun doing it together with my daughter with my daughter. She enjoyed playing the balls.

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Can Live Without Cellphone, But Not Without Internet

This is just a continuation of what I have posted in my personal blogsite (www.durezadolina.com) about having a cellphone-less day.  .   .   .  .

I have mentioned that I can live and go somewhere without bringing with me my cellphone. That’s precisely true.  . .  But, I thought for a while, can I live without internet?  Hmmm, I guess, NOT!

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www.durezadolina.com is back

I am brimming with so much joy to see in my e-mail inbox a message from the WordPress Administrator informing me that my first website , www.durezadolina.com, is now back. If you  recall, I posted around four months ago that my website was suspended or perhaps deleted and that suspension of my site was devastating and frustrating that I almost wanted to end my blogging activities. Whew, I am very excited to give my personal website a facelift. I’ll make it more exciting and better.

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Belated Happy Birthday Donna

September 20 was the 32nd birthday of my youngest sister, Donna. This is a very late post . . . I just want to enumerate my excuses for not posting on time. . .  Wait, I don’t have any. . . Belated Happy Birthday, anyway.

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Writing and Paper-Throwing

This is my third very busy week writing,writing and  writing. . . My days have been fully loaded with heaps of writing jobs that some of the things which I have long been wanting to do have been forgotten. Want to know what is this thing that I want to do? Well, it’s just cleaning my place and place things in order espcially the papers. I want a clutter-free home office. Whew, I’m noe tempted to throw all those papers!!!!!!

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Mama Mary and My Mother

Today is the birthday of Mama Mary, the mother of Our Saviour Jesus Christ. The readings and gospel today never mentioned anything about the birth or the celebration of her birthday. But the whole Catholic Church is celebrating her birthday this day and I am not in the position to neither question the real date of her birth nor dig the roots as to who really knows when Mama Mary was born. My strong Catholic devotion assumes the sacredness of the Church teachings that questioning the truthfulness or falsity of what was taught in my religion class is out of my mind.

 

Unlike the other feasts celebrated in the Catholic Church, Mama Mary’s birthday need not be celebrated with a grandiose party –  contrary to my three-year old nephew’s belief that they should buy a cake, sing a birthday song and then make a wish before the candle is blown for Mama Mary’s birthday. My two sisters, niece, daughter and I celebrated her birthday in an extraordinary way, that is, by visiting my mother’s gravesite – weird but meaningful.

 Our mother may not have been like Mama Mary- in fact different in all aspects, but her sacrifices in raising raise her seven children is nothing more like to what Mama Mary went through. My mother endured relentlessly to give us all our needs, although we were not provided with all our wants, and had to sacrifice and forego her own material desires just to provide the necessities of her seven growing children. The virtues instilled and the values formed in our young minds were greatly credited to the disciplinary psyche of our mother who wished us all to be good persons. The image of Mama Mary constantly reminds me of the agonies, sacrifices, and hurts suffered by my strong-willed mother who, despite of it all, never showed her emotional distress to her children. The problems she encountered while battling the difficult life of raising a big family made her stronger and more mature. Every inch of complicated situation was faced with much dignity that made her stand tall with head high up, and such gave her the strength to face-off whatever problems that came her way. Her might was tested in the battlefield for many times and had won many of those including the most difficult battles of all, that is, having saved her own matrimony which was once had been attempted to be destroyed by a woman’s evil mind. Our mother’s ability to be triumphant over life’s complicatedness significantly enriched our minds not to be afraid of whatever tribulations that will come our way.

 

 

 

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